As your child gets older their requests go from the doll or toy race car to an iPod or a laptop. Should young children get such luxury items, or are they necessities in today’s society? It would probably depend on who you ask as to the answer to that question. Many individuals from older generations are going to say they are luxury items not necessary for a young child, while someone from a younger generation may have a different opinion.
Individuals in their 30′s and 40′s would probably have mixed feelings. These individuals grew up in a rapidly changing time where they can remember not having a lot of technology, but as teenagers the technology was being developed and first introduced. Therefore as a generation we were just as fascinated with the gadgets and the new products that came along. We can remember the excitement of the original Atari video game systems and having to go to a store to play it because our parents couldn’t afford the system and was addicted to Pac Man, Kangaroo, or Donkey Kong. Now things are so much different but we are still just as fascinated. So when things come out and our kids ask for them, we want them just as much.
The key is to teach your children responsibility and that they have to earn the items they receive. It is never a good idea to just give children anything they ask for without requiring them to do something to earn it, even if it is just them cleaning their room. We all remember wanting something as a child and often repeat the actions of our parents. Make sure you show responsibility if you choose to buy game systems or computers for your children.









